Ok ladies have you noticed how in every magazine or at every lunch date with your girls there is talk about what men like the most. For example the cover of Cosmo would read something like this " Little Things To Make You More Attractive to Men" or " The Top Ten Looks Men Love." If you are anything like me you have a whole entourage of female friends who also bring up this topic. They say things such as "oh girl I have to straighten my hair men hate curly hair", or "I really love my baby doll shirt but men hate these shirts" etc. etc.
Well here is where I stand. I am over it all. One guy likes it straight another one curly. One thinks the baby doll shirt is cute the other thinks it makes the girl look pregnant. One loves quiet girls the other prefers outgoing women. Really ladies???? Are we really just going to sit here and cater ourselves to men. Think about it. How many times have you met a guy and he says one thing and does a completely different thing for an example " I would never wear pink" and then 6 mon later he is rocking a pink polo?
Also have you ever noticed your closest guy friend be the biggest player in the world, and then suddenly one day get really serious about a girl? Or maybe your guy friend has a type of girl and would never date a certain type, but 1 year later you find him holding hands with the type of girl he would never consider previously.
Do you know why this is the case? The reason is everything is on a case by case base. Generalizations do not work at all. Ladies you just have to be yourself whatever that is, and there will be beauty that flows from that, and trust me the men population pool will not dry up because you don't do everything that you think they will like. People are transient. People change constantly, and people change due to their exposure. So be yourself. Do what makes you happy. Do what works for you, because at the end of the day MOST relationships don't work out , and you have to live with yourself. So to thy own self be true.
XOXO
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Guys are so simple, we do ourselves a disservice trying to get all complicated for them.
ReplyDeleteAnd clothes are fine, but guess what guys like better? Nakedness. So I wouldn't worry too much about how your fashion is going to effect your dude. He'd probably rather you were just naked anyway.
AMEN to this post. Love it.
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